Story: Lisa Sollie | Photo: Cody Ingram

For Meridian resident Tanesha Slocum, the belief that “nothing worth having comes easy” is more than a saying—it’s a way of life.

Pursuing an associate degree in nursing at the University of West Alabama, Slocum balanced service in the Army Reserve’s 828th Battalion in Livingston with full-time college—all while raising three children, welcoming a new baby and building a new marriage. On May 8, she added another title to her list: college graduate.

“I had a great experience at UWA, and I really loved my instructors and professors,” Slocum said. “They invest so much time and energy into their students’ success. Even after I failed a class and had to sit out a year, they worked with me. They are always open to questions and willing to go over material when you don’t understand something, and I appreciate that so much.”

That belief—that nothing worth having comes easy—has defined every step of her journey and guided one of her most difficult decisions: choosing not to reenlist at the end of her contract and instead transition to full-time college.

“Even though I started the nursing program after I got married and welcomed my third child, I believe transitioning from the military was probably my greatest challenge,” she said. “Going from the consistency and stability of a steady paycheck to not working at all was difficult. Then we moved off the Naval Air Station in Meridian. It was a lot of change in a short period of time.”

Curiosity about the university near the Reserve Center ultimately led Slocum to UWA. Her interest in nursing began earlier, while working in home health after an initial attempt at college in Florida didn’t work out.

“Life got in the way back then, but I had a grandfather who was a nurse, so I decided to apply at UWA and was accepted.”

Slocum says discipline and her faith are what have carried her through—and her husband and two older children helped as well.

“I was pretty young when I had them. My daughter is now 14 and my son is 13,” Slocum said. “We’ve come a long way together. Throughout this whole process, they constantly tell me how proud they are of me. They let me know on test days that they’ve prayed for me and that I’m going to do well. My daughter acts like a little mama, asking me if I studied, and then asking for my notes so she can quiz me.”

Slocum has already completed a few prerequisites for the bachelor of science in nursing program at UWA and hopes to enter the program in October. Now she’s focusing on preparing for the NCLEX, the national licensure exam for registered nurses, and finding a job closer to home.

“I’ve been commuting for the past several years, first for work, and then for school. I’ve applied to a few places here in town, and I’m just praying for direction on where to go,” Slocum said. “I know things are going to crank up for me now that both my older children will be at Meridian High this fall—my daughter in color guard and my son playing football. But I’m not stopping yet—I still have more to accomplish.”